I get to them from under. Either on ramps or jacks. Yes both sides disconnect.
If you hosed the underside with any solvent, I'm more sure than ever it's your bushing. I totally get where you are coming from about no-way-capillary-action, but I don't agree. Not gonna fight about it or anything, I just strongly believe spraying is enough to get penetration in there.... and the subsequent squeak.
So I'm more sure now than ever that the bush is your root cause, and the solution is to unbolt it, clean the heck out of it, and put it back dry.
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For the record, I have some really nice sway bar grease (snake oil?) in my toolbox, but I never got to the point of using it. What worked for me was clean, clean, clean, and put back dry, dry, dry. I'm not sure if using purpose specific grease is a good idea or not.
I can tell you for darn sure WD40 makes it worse. When I had my squeak from crap getting in there, I hosed it with WD40 for troubleshooting pathfinding, and the squeak went completely away. I knew what was coming tho, 2 days later and it was worse than ever. That's what triggered my 1-2-3 plan above. But I never got past #1 because it worked.
Lasted 1-2 years no squeak, so I'm a few months away from being due again if the crap-accumulation is happening at the same pace.